"Sometimes, the person you want the most is the person you’re best without."

How to Get Over Someone Who Doesn’t Feel the Same

Unrequited love hurts. Thinking about someone constantly, replaying memories, imagining different outcomes, it can take over your peace. But you deserve clarity, healing, and most of all, freedom from someone who isn’t meant for you.

1. Accept the Truth, Even If It Hurts

You can’t heal if you’re still holding onto “what if.” Stop trying to read between the lines or find hidden meaning in their actions. If they don’t feel the same, it’s not a reflection of your worth, it’s just reality. And that’s okay.

2. Cut Off the Source

Stop checking their profile. Stop rereading old messages. Distance isn’t cold, it’s necessary. Healing requires space. The more you feed the attachment, the harder it is to let go.

3. Remind Yourself of What You Deserve

You deserve someone who chooses you, openly and fully. Someone who doesn’t make you question your value. Don’t romanticize a connection that wasn’t mutual, that’s not love, that’s longing.

4. Pour Into Yourself Instead

Put all that energy you gave to them into yourself. Work on your passions, your health, your peace. Rebuild your identity outside of this person. You’re not just someone who loved them, you’re someone with a whole life to live.

5. Let the Grief Move Through You

You might feel sadness, anger, even shame, let it out. Suppressing feelings doesn’t erase them. Journaling, talking to a friend, or simply crying it out is part of the healing. Feel it to free it.

6. Believe This Isn’t the End of Love

Just because they didn’t love you back doesn’t mean you’re unlovable. There are people out there who will see you, all of you, and feel grateful just to be near. Hold on for them.

🚀 Remember, you’re not losing your only chance at love, you’re creating space for the right one to find you.

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